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Wednesday, December 5, 2018

Meghan Markle Has Morton’s Toe—Here’s What That Means


It’s no secret the Internet is obsessed with Meghan Markle’s trendy fashion sensibility, but recently, she wore a pair of shoes that made headlines for a whole new reason. They showed her toes, and the world could finally see that her second toe was longer than her first. Shocking, right?

Jokes aside, having a second toe that’s longer than your first toe, aka your big or great toe, is super common. “It’s found in about 20% of the population,” Jacqueline Sutera, DPM, Vionic Innovation Lab expert and podiatrist at City Podiatry in New York City, tells Health. So there’s no reason to freak over Markle’s feet, but what you probably don’t know is there’s actually a name for this minor abnormality: Morton’s toe.

Morton’s toe is genetic, Sutera says, and it’s typically nothing to worry about. It does, however, put more pressure on the second toe than the first, which can cause foot pain in some people. The increased pressure can also lead to painful corns or hard calluses on the second toe. Again, it’s annoying, but not serious.

“Toenail damage, ingrown nails, and nail injury is also very common from having a longer second toe, especially if you wear high heels, pointy, narrow, tight shoes, or are a runner,” Sutera says.

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If you do have pain from Morton’s toe, your shoes could be the culprit. You want to make sure your second toe has enough room in each pair of shoes you own. That could mean sticking to shoes that have a roomier toe area and throwing away any that don’t.

“When we’re at a shoe store, it’s very common to measure for the great toe. You should measure for your longest toe,” Sutera says. “Over time, cramming your second toe into a shoe that doesn’t fit well can cause pain, arthritis, and hammering.”

People with a longer second toe are also at greater risk of developing hammer toe, which is when the toe becomes permanently bent. It’s just another reason to always wear shoes that fit properly, which Sutera says is the best treatment for Morton’s toe. Orthotics and metatarsal pads can also help balance and redistribute the weight across the ball of foot.

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Although it’s rare, surgery can also be used to shorten the toe, but it’s usually used in very severe cases and no other method has been successful in relieving pain.

So Morton’s toe shouldn’t hinder your (or Markle’s) everyday life all that much. But if it does, you should speak to a podiatrist. Interestingly, the condition is also known as “Greek foot,” and legend has it, having a larger second toe is associated with being a natural leader, having great intelligence, and even showing a royal demeanor….

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5 Ways to Stick With Your Winter Workouts



By Tina Haupert

The past couple of weeks have really tested my motivation to maintain my Feel Great Weight.

The Northeast, especially Boston, was hit hard with snow, sleet, and ice. The last thing I wanted to do in that horrible weather was exercise. Bundling up, cleaning the snow off of my car, scraping the windows, and dealing with the messy roads require a lot of effort just to get myself to the gym! Instead of throwing in the towel on my motivation, however, I refocused, reminded myself of my goals, and went back to the basics. Here’s what I did to get myself back on track.

Write down my goals…again
In January, I committed to running four half marathons in 2011. I created a half-marathon training program for myself, but with the snow, I’ve gotten a little off track. So, last weekend, I rewrote my goals and refined my training schedule to motivate myself. Putting it down on paper made me feel more in control of the situation and ready to tackle the plan.
 
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Identify the missed workouts
My Google calendar keeps me organized with all aspects of my daily life—from blogging deadlines and grocery lists to workouts and social events. I typically spend some time on Sunday afternoons scheduling my workouts for the week. Seeing my day laid out with plenty of time for exercise motivates me to stick to my plan. This is a great idea in theory, because I still missed quite a few of my scheduled workouts in the past couple of weeks. I went through my calendar to identify the ones I missed and to figure out why. Looking at my excuses for skipping them made me much more aware of how to deal with low motivation when it strikes, which will help me accomplish my future workouts.

Eat for energy
Eating foods for energy has totally changed my thinking about what I was putting into my mouth—and how it affects my hunger later. I used to keep a food journal online, but I found that I only focused on the calories consumed and not on eating nutritious and satisfying foods. It was also time-consuming and inconvenient to continuously calculate all of those calories, so hundreds of them often went unaccounted for each day, which made me feel like a failure.

When I started working at NuVal, I realized that the best foods were the most nutritious and also the most figure-friendly. I began choosing nutritious foods over those simply low in calories, and, eventually, I started making better choices. For instance, I realized that when measured in terms of calories, my lunches were much too small, making me overeat in the afternoon and sometimes at dinner too. Filling my meals with protein, fiber, and some healthy fats helped control my hungry, fuel my workouts, and keep my weight in check.

Blog about it
After finding my Feel Great Weight, I started my blog, Carrots ’N’ Cake, to keep me accountable in the months leading up to my wedding. Beginning with my first post, I’ve always been up front with my readers about what I want to accomplish. Sharing my goals makes me accountable to my family, friends, and even to strangers. My readers provide support, motivation—and even praise and encouragement!

Remind myself of how far I’ve come
So I haven’t been very motivated lately. But when I remind myself of how far I’ve come with my training—I recently ran my first marathon!—I know I can keep at my goals. Even though I’ve scaled back my mileage, I don’t want to take for granted the progress I’ve made. I’ve managed to keep my weight within 10 pounds of where I want to be. I’ve incorporated more fresh produce, whole grains, and unprocessed food into my diet. And I’ve even had an easier time saying no to my weaknesses–sweet splurges like cookies and cupcakes!



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Been There, Lost That: Weight-Loss Advice From a Successful Dieter


By Tina Haupert

My weight loss didn’t happen overnight. It took me almost a year and a half to lose 20 pounds and reach my Feel Great Weight. I wasn’t “dieting.” I made lifestyle changes—figuring out what worked best for me through trial and error. These changes have stuck with me and helped me maintain my weight for nearly six years now. (Well, minus those post-marathon pounds, which I am actively trying to lose!)

I often receive questions about my weight loss. Here are my answers to some of the more common ones.

How many calories do you eat per day? And how many calories did you eat when you were losing weight?
Currently (and while losing weight), I eat 1,800 to 2,200 calories a day. Before finding my FGW, I ate closer to 3,000 per day, which was the reason for my weight gain in the first place. Once I reduced that amount and started exercising regularly, the weight slowly came off.

How long did it take you to get to your maintenance stage?
It took me a good year and a half to drop from 153 to 130 lbs. It was definitely a journey to get there—lots of hard work!

I know you love dessert, so when you first started losing weight, did you let yourself have these treats?
Yes, absolutely! I knew when I was trying to lose weight that giving up delicious foods would make me miserable. I still treat myself to dessert (everyday, in fact!), but I typically keep the portion small, around 200 to 300 calories. This small indulgence makes a big difference in how I view food: Nothing is “off-limits” to me.

How did you stay motivated during your weight loss?
Losing weight was tough, but staying motivated was even tougher! What kept me going through it all was knowing that I was making a lifestyle change. Even though I was changing my eating and exercise habits, I still slipped up and overate every now and then. However, I always made sure to get myself back on track at the very next meal. Losing weight is all about consistency, so if I slip up, I refocus and try not worry about it.

How do I find out how many calories I should be aiming for in a day if I’m trying to lose weight?
To lose one pound a week, you need to cut 500 calories a day. I used an online calculator to figure out how many calories I needed to lose about 1/2 pound a week. The calculator will give you the approximate number of calories you need to lose, maintain, or gain weight based on your height, current weight, age, and activity level.

I recently started working full time after graduating from college and I have a really hard time sticking to my regular healthy diet. Do you have any suggestions that would help me get back on track?
I too gained weight after graduating college. I sat at a desk most of the day, didn’t exercise regularly, and indulged in happy hour frequently! My best advice is to become a morning exerciser. If I don’t work out first thing in the morning, I find plenty of excuses not to go to the gym after work. Plus, starting my day with some heart-pumping exercise sets a healthy tone for the entire day, and I’m more likely to stay on track with healthy eating and other good-for-me habits.



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Secrets of Women with Healthy Hearts


womens-heart-healthFrank HeckersFrom Health magazine

 

Youre under 50. youre pretty fit. You cant have a heart attack, right? Truth is, starting at the age of 35, heart disease is the leading killer of women. About 35,000 women younger than 50 die of heart attacks annually—but only 20 percent of women believe theyre at risk for heart disease.

“We really need to bust the myth that this is just a disease of men and older women,” says Nieca Goldberg, MD, medical director of the New York University Womens Heart Program. Sixty-four percent of women die suddenly with their first heart attack without any warning signs at all, and 90 percent of those women had at least one risk factor that could have been addressed.

“Thats why its critical to figure out your risks and do prevention early on,” Dr. Goldberg says. And thats what the women were featuring here did. Using a variety of strategies, they tackled a range of risk factors, including scary family histories, high blood pressure, and obesity. We asked Dr. Goldberg to assess how well they did—and to help us all learn how to lower our own risks.

 

 

 

 

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Loraine Morgan, 34

Risk factor: Family history

When Loraine Morgans dad was told he had high cholesterol, he took a pill and ignored it. Ditto with high blood pressure, and again with diabetes. “He took medications, but didnt make any major life changes,” says Morgan, 34, a mother of two with another baby on the way. But then, when her father was 63, one of his toes turned black, a complication of diabetes, and his whole foot had to be amputated. “That was a turning point for everyone,” she says. “The doctor said that 90 percent of his coronary arteries were clogged.”

The next day Morgan started running, made an appointment to get a physical, and looked in the mirror. She was 15 pounds overweight and decided to ditch those extra pounds. She also did some digging on her family history. Her father went on to have five amputations and died at 68. Her mom has high blood pressure and high cholesterol. Her maternal grandmother has had a stroke. Her paternal grandfather died of a heart attack. And most of her aunts and uncles have some risks for heart disease or diabetes. She realized that dealing with illness would be her destiny if she didnt make changes.

Morgan now runs about 40 minutes a day, five days a week, and lifts weights twice a week. “I was the first of my three sisters to change my lifestyle, and they all followed suit,” she says. She no longer eats the nightly steak-and-potatoes diet her parents followed. Instead, her meals are well-balanced and varied, with plenty of fiber, a lot of lean protein (she eats fish at least twice a week), and vegetables. She also eats every two hours to keep her metabolism up and blood sugar stable. “Every food decision I make now is because it has the best nutrients for my body,” Morgan says.

Dr. Goldbergs take:
“Morgans family has serious risks for diabetes and high cholesterol, so she was at risk, too. But with the lifestyle shes now leading, shes going to prevent it. Her numbers—BMI, 20; waist, 23 inches; LDL, 96; HDL, 78—are all very good. Id give her an A+ for heart health. Her running is a very big part of her program, and studies show that people at risk for type 2 diabetes who exercise regularly are able to fight it off. Shes also created a balanced diet, one she can live with. Now that shes pregnant, Morgan needs to get good nutrients for the baby without returning to the higher-fat foods of her youth.”

 

 

 

 

 

  

 

 Next Page: Barbara Lesperance, 70

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Barbara Lesperance, 70

Risk factor: Age

Once women hit menopause and their estrogen levels drop, risks of problems like high cholesterol and high blood pressure go up. But Barbara Lesperance hasnt let menopause or her age affect her heart health. In fact, “I think Im healthier now than Ive ever been,” says the mother of four, grandmother of 10, and retired nurse.

She does a sweat-inducing 35-minute strength-training circuit at Curves three days a week and plays golf—she walks the front nine holes—three times a week. On her nongolfing days, Lesperance and her husband walk 2 miles after dinner. She eats healthy foods like chicken, salmon, and lots of fruits and vegetables and salads. For her efforts, she has lost 7 pounds since she retired seven years ago, her LDL (bad) cholesterol is at an all-time low of 102, and she feels that shes got more stamina now than she has had in a long time.

Dr. Goldbergs take:

“Lesperances only risk factor is her age. I think the best thing she is doing for herself, after years of taking care of others, is that shes now taking care of her own health. Her active lifestyle has taken years off her risk. Her exercise regimen is excellent and well-rounded with strength training, walking, and golf. And her healthy HDL level (66) is seen in people who exercise. Plus, her BMI of 22 and 29-inch waist show that she eats right. Id give her an A.”

 

 

  

 

 Next Page: Jennifer Griola, 34

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Jennifer Griola, 34

Risk factors: Overweight; had borderline gestational diabetes while pregnant

Jennifer Griola, a blogger and mother of two, busts the myth that you have to be thin to be heart-healthy—her BMI is 30 and her waist is 35 inches. Griola does a high-intensity workout six days a week for 90 minutes, alternating between an interval workout with a trainer and a cardio boot camp class.

She eats lots of vegetables prepares her food rather than relying on frozen meals, and rarely eats red meat, opting instead for ground turkey, chicken, and lots of lentils, beans, soy, and nuts in moderation. Not only has Griola lost about 90 pounds in five years, but her HDL has gone from 47 (in the unhealthy range) to 56, her LDL has dropped from 109 to 94, and her triglycerides (a fat associated with heart disease) have plummeted from 130 to a very healthy 56.

When she was pregnant with her first child—before her weight loss—Griola had borderline gestational diabetes and high blood pressure. (New evidence suggests that women who had high blood pressure while pregnant, especially those who had preeclampsia, have a higher risk of heart disease.) While nursing her baby, she started thinking about her lifestyle and being a better role model for her daughter. Thats when she launched her exercise-and-diet program, which she blogs about on Lost100.com.

“Because Id been an athlete, I never thought of myself as obese or at risk of a heart attack, but I probably was,” Griola says. By her second pregnancy, after shed lost weight, she had neither high blood pressure nor borderline gestational diabetes.

Dr. Goldbergs Take:

“Id give Griola an A–. Shes doing all the right stuff, and she has obviously found success doing it. Some people dont ever start an exercise program because they say it will never work, but shes proof that the scientific data is right: The dramatic change in her triglycerides and her better cholesterol stats came from losing the weight. She needs to reduce her waist size a bit more, which she can do by doing more muscle-strengthening exercise to lower her percentage of body fat.”

 

 

  

 

 Next Page: Alissa Gardenhire-crooks, 39

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Alissa Gardenhire-crooks, 39

Risk Factors: Family history; high blood pressure

Since grad school, Alissa Gardenhire-Crooks, a social-policy researcher, has had high blood pressure, a not-uncommon condition in African-Americans. In fact, both of her parents have hypertension, and her father had a mini-stroke in his mid-50s and a full-blown one in his late-60s. But Gardenhire-Crooks heart stats look great, thanks to her efforts to get back in shape (she had been sedentary since college) and change her diet. (Shes also on blood pressure medicine.)

During college, grad school, and her first years on the job, Gardenhire-Crooks had lost and gained 50 pounds several times and had become so frustrated with her weight that she saw a surgeon for bariatric surgery. “I was sad about being so heavy and not feeling good about myself,” she says. She also had a toddler who was very active. “I was really exhausted physically and worn out emotionally with the up-and-down dieting,” she says. (Yo-yo dieting is also very hard on the heart and arteries, studies show.)

While awaiting insurance approval for the surgery, Gardenhire-Crooks started a fitness plan, inspired by a personal trainer she met at a bodybuilding gym; he also gave her an education in nutrition. She lost 69 pounds, went from a size 20 to 8 (a transformation she blogs about at Size10Chronicles.com), and ditched the surgery idea. Gardenhire-Crooks currently lifts weights three times a week and does cardio six times a week. Shes also a Buddhist, and she meditates 20 to 30 minutes several times a week.

Though she wasnt a junk-food eater, carbs were her downfall. “I was addicted to bread, potatoes, and rice,” she admits. Now she does carb cycling, in which she eats no starches three days in a row. Her BMI is 27.5, HDL (good) cholesterol is 62, and LDL (bad) cholesterol is a low 92.

Dr. Goldbergs take:

“African-American women are at higher risk for heart disease and diabetes, but I dont think Gardenhire-Crooks will become a statistic. This woman has a plan that earns her an A–. If she keeps it up, shell lower her risks for heart disease and type 2 diabetes. The only thing she has to keep an eye on is her blood pressure, which is in the prehypertensive range at 128/70. Her meditation is a great way to keep blood pressure down, but she should also reduce the salt in her diet.”

 

 

  

 

 Next Page: Debbie Ann Schneider, 46

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Debbie Ann Schneider, 46

Risk factors: Heart attack at 42; had been a smoker

Four years ago, after Debbie Ann Schneider had logged nearly an hour-and-a-half on the treadmill (she was absorbed in a TV show), she felt a touch of asthma and noticed that her heart rate kept going up even though she was slowing down. As she started to lie down she thought of a TV show shed seen three weeks earlier about how heart attack symptoms differ in women and men. Then her dog uncharacteristically put his head on her heart. That was it. Schneider went to her computer to look up symptoms of a heart attack and recognized a few in herself—chest discomfort, trouble breathing, nausea, and a general unwell feeling. She got up and drove herself to the hospital.

While being triaged (ever so slowly because she appeared to be a healthy young woman), her blood pressure kept dropping. Schneider had had a heart attack caused by a coronary artery spasm, in which a contraction of the artery stops blood flow to the heart. “If I hadnt seen that TV show, Id probably be dead,” she says.

Schneiders only obvious risk factor was that she had been a smoker (though she had quit five years earlier). Shed always been fighting those last 10 to 15 pounds, but she had been a vegetarian since 1991 and had always exercised. “I was perfectly healthy and fine, and had no idea I had any flaw or heart disease,” she says.

Now Schneider is considered at higher risk for a second heart attack, and she takes medication to prevent another spasm. But her healthy lifestyle is helping to keep her risks low. She exercises a couple of times a week and is trying to eat a Mediterranean diet. She takes omega-3 supplements and plant flavonoids, which may help lower her cholesterol. And she avoids stress. “I actually get chest pains when anything is too stressful,” she says. This built-in barometer has helped her kick stress out of her life.

Dr. Goldbergs Take:

“Smoking is a major risk factor in heart disease, so its great that Schneider quit. She didnt have a heart attack because of plaque buildup, but its important for her to keep exercising and eating right to lower her risks of another heart attack, which go up after a person has one. She has done a great job controlling her cholesterol—her LDL of 94 is great—but theres room for improvement, so Id give her a B+. Schneider needs to reduce her waist size (36) and boost her HDL (53) with exercise and diet. The stress reduction is great. Plus, she has two dogs, which can help reduce heart attack risk.”

 



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Do You Really Need That Medical Test?


medical-test-expensive-dangerousMake sure your insurance covers any test your doctor wants to give you.(123RF)

Unnecessary medical tests are inflating your bills—and may even be endangering your health. A 2006 study in the American Journal of Preventive Medicine found that in 43% of routine checkups of outwardly healthy people, doctors ordered an X-ray, electrocardiogram, or urinalysis—tests that are not recommended for routine prevention under national guidelines.

“There is harm in extra tests, such as exposure to radiation,” says Daniel Merenstein, MD, the director of family medicine at Georgetown University and the lead author of the study.

Besides causing stress, excessive testing can eat up funds or insurance coverage. Dr. Merenstein says that in one recent case, a couple had an extensive infertility workup costing thousands of dollars, even though they had been trying to conceive for only six months. (Medically, infertility is defined as trouble conceiving for at least one year.)

“In another study, we found doctors in the Washington, D.C., area were overusing colonoscopies—doing them every 5 years instead of every 10 as guidelines recommend,” Dr. Merenstein says, referring to the recommended interval for people whose colonoscopies show no abnormalities. Colonoscopies, which range in cost from $650 for a simple procedure to $2,000 or more if they include biopsies, are important for detecting colon cancer, but they do carry risks of complications, such as bleeding and bowel perforation.

Superfluous tests arent always the doctors idea. Bob Phillips, MD, director of the Robert Graham Center, a Washington, D.C.–based research center that studies policy in family practice and primary care, had one 70-year-old patient who asked him to do a prostate specific antigen (PSA) test for prostate cancer. The results were normal, but the man was consumed with worry because his father had suffered from the condition. He sought a second opinion from a urologist, who repeated the PSA on account of this family history. Although the second PSA showed no increased risk for cancer, the urologist recommended a blind biopsy. Sure enough, cancer was found, and the man had his prostate removed, a procedure which left him impotent and incontinent.

“At that point, he came back to me very upset about the side effects, and asked me, ‘Did I do the right thing?'” says Dr. Phillips. “By age 70, half of men will have prostate cancer, but most dont end up dying of it. I felt just terrible for him. Theres a good chance he would have lived his life without any ill effects from the cancer.”

Question why a test is being done
If your doctor orders an MRI, CT scan, or other medical test, speak up. “Ask why its being ordered, what will be done afterward if the results are positive (or negative), and what your risk factors are,” says Dr. Phillips. If the answer is simply, “routine screening,” the test may be unnecessary. The doctor should have specific reasons, he says.

Some blood tests, such as the complete blood count (CBC), are sometimes done too often. While not dangerous, the costs can add up, especially if you get them several times. “The main thing is, ask your doctor, ‘Do I really need this test?'” says Dr. Merenstein.

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[ pagebreak ]Organize your medical records—and share them with all your providers
One reason for unnecessary tests is scattered record keeping. “It helps if your doctor has electronic medical records,” says Dr. Phillips. “Frequently, blood tests are repeated because doctors dont know a test has already been done or because they cant put their hands on the results. And if youre also seeing a cardiologist, an endocrinologist, or other specialists, youre likely to have the same test repeated two or three times.”

You can avoid duplication by keeping track of your own records, including copies of EKGs, X-rays, and blood work. Ask for photocopies of lab results and carry them with you when you see specialists.

“Everyone should have one page that shows, this is my last colonoscopy, my last mammogram, my last blood-sugar test,” says Dr. Merenstein.

Whenever you are referred to another doctor, Dr. Phillips suggests that you ask for your test results to be shared with other physicians: “Say, ‘Heres the number for my cardiologist, can you fax my results to him?'”

Online health record services such as Microsoft’s HealthVault, Google Health, and iHealthRecord offer free and easy ways to compile medical records and track prescriptions. Pay services such as MyMedicalRecords.com and FollowMe even allow you to upload and organize images of MRIs, CT scans, and X-rays, and to have them handy if you change doctors or see specialists.

Shop around for less expensive tests
When you do need to have a test done, it pays to call a few different testing facilities to compare prices. If youre paying out-of-pocket, or are worried about exhausting your health-insurance caps, you might find that the savings are considerable.



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5 Weird Ways Love Can Affect Your Body



Beyoncé may be a musical genius, but can you really be “drunk in love”? According to science, yes, yes you can. In fact, feeling head-over-heels does more than just make you feel a little warm and fuzzy, it can actually transform the way you think and act.

Check out some of the freaky ways love can affect your mind and body and prepare to feel (mostly) exonerated from your past in-the-name-of-love behavior.

It can make you feel high

Yes, there’s a scientific explanation for why you feel so blissfully overjoyed during a new relationship, and it has nothing to do with romantic dates. Scientists at the Albert Einstein College of Medicine in New York City studied the MRI scans of college students and found that falling in love activates the same neural system in your brain that lights up when you take cocaine, giving you an intense feeling of euphoria. So if you feel like you’re “addicted” to your new beau, you may not be as crazy as you think.

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It can make you dumber

Or at least really, really spacey. Research published in the journal Motivation and Emotion in 2013 found that people who are in love are less able to focus and perform tasks that require attention than people who aren’t enamored. In addition, the more in love the participants in the study were, the more difficult it was for them to concentrate on assignments. The study authors aren’t quite sure why exactly love makes your brain go fuzzy, but they do theorize that a balance between focus and fantasy is crucial for a successful relationship (and probably a productive day!).

It can make you meaner

Think back to every rom-com where two guys duke it out over a girl or a pair of best friends become scheming enemies because of a man. What causes such intense hostility in the name of love? According to a recent study published in Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, the answer lies in neurological hormones that are linked to aggression and empathy. Researchers at the University of Buffalo asked participants to describe a time when someone close to them was threatened and how they reacted and they found that caring for someone predicted aggressive behavior. So when you’re with someone you love, these hormones can turn your brain’s warm, compassionate empathy into protective aggression, readying you to defend your mate against attackers, stressful events, and even sadness. Cute, huh?

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It can make you obsessive

If you’ve ever fallen in love, you know how the infatuation that occurs in the early stages of a relationship can feel all-encompassing and exhausting. Researchers at the University of Pisa in Italy set out to find the reason why and discovered that the biochemical effects of romantic love can be indistinguishable from having obsessive-compulsive disorder. The scientists found that people who fell in love in the previous 6 months had similar low levels of serotonin (a calm-producing hormone) as individuals with OCD, which might explain why you can’t stop thinking about your baby all day and night.

It can make you feel invincible

Ever wonder why all your aches seem to disappear when you’re cuddling with your partner? No, it’s not a coincidence. According to researchers at Stanford University, the areas of the brain that are affected by feelings of intense love are the same areas that painkillers target. Participants brought in photos of their significant other plus an equally attractive friend and the photos were flashed in front of them while researchers heated up a thermal simulator on their palms. Brain scans showed that the “love” photos reduced pain more than the friend photos, possibly by activating reward centers that block pain at a spinal level, like opioid painkillers do. Of course, a passionate romance isn’t a good alternative for chronic pain meds, but, hey, it could help.

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The Easy Way to Up Your Daily Steps (and Why That Matters)


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 By Su Reid-St. John

I was perusing some research in the journal Medicine and Science in Sports and Exercise recently and came across a couple of disturbing statistics: Despite all the hoopla out there about taking 10,000 steps a day, Americans take an average of just 5,117 steps—nowhere near the numbers run up by folks living in places like Switzerland, Japan, and Australia. What’s worse, U.S. women average even fewer steps—a mere 4,912 (versus 5,340 for men). C’mon, gals, we’re better than that!

I know what you’re thinking: I’m too busy to walk more! But there’s actually a simple way to get it done that doesn’t require any extra time: Wear a pedometer. Numerous studies (including the one mentioned above) show that people who do tend to naturally walk more throughout their days.

I think I know why. I started wearing a Fitbit activity monitor (think pedometer plus) almost a year ago. Suddenly, taking more steps became a game: How many could I do during the day? Could I beat yesterday’s total? Slowly but surely, my number began rising. To boost it, I started pacing while waiting for the doctor, talking on the phone, and brushing my teeth. Stairs suddenly became an opportunity to get more steps in. I began slipping away from my desk every afternoon to take a short “brainstorming walk” to increase my number even more.

Before long, moving instead of sitting became second nature. I knew the tide had turned the day I got to my office and realized that I’d left my purse in the car. Instead of feeling frustrated, I automatically thought: “Great, more steps!” You get the picture.

Eleven months later, the bloom is still not off the rose, and I now routinely average 10,000 steps per day (including my workouts) without thinking too much about it. That’s pretty amazing to me, given that when I started out I was averaging around 5,200 or so.

You don’t have to splurge on a fancy activity monitor like my beloved Fitbit, either—head to any sporting goods store or large retailer like Target and you’ll be able to snag one for under $20.

Still need convincing? How about this: Pedometer wearers weigh less on average than those who don’t.

So to recap: Wear a pedometer and you’ll start walking more, plus you’re likely to begin slimming down in the process—no extra time required. What are you waiting for?

 



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25 Simple Ways to Get More Steps In Your Day


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So you’ve heard it a million times: Walk more! Aim for 10,000 steps a day! But taking the stairs instead of the elevator will only get you so far. Steal a few of these fresh tips to help you rack up your mileage.

1. Pace the room while waiting at the doctor’s office.

2. Grocery shopping? Make an extra tour around the perimeter aisles before checking out.

3. Use the restroom one floor down (or up) at work instead of heading for the one just down the hall.

4. Ditto with your coffee.

5. Hide the remote so you have to actually get up to change the channel. Better yet, turn off the TV.

6. Instead of fighting other drivers for that single open spot near the door, do your blood pressure a favor and park several rows away.

7. Walk around the block while your kid is taking dance class/playing soccer/whatever.

8. Get off the bus or subway one stop early.

9. March in place while brushing your teeth (go ahead and shut the door first if you’d like).

10. Going to the mailbox? Take a tour around the house first—then take the time to say hello to that chatty neighbor who flags you down.

11. Hoof it to the store when you’re only buying a few easy-to-carry items.

12. Walk over to your coworker’s desk instead of e-mailing her.

13. Make it a nightly habit to go for an after-dinner stroll with the family.

14. Early for an appointment? Walk around the block instead of adding to your interminable time in the waiting room.

15. Take a daily afternoon “brainstorming” walk.

16. Wander the room while chatting on the phone.

17. Walk your child to school instead of waiting in the endless carpool line.

18. Instead of cooping yourself and your coworkers up in a stuffy conference room, make your next meeting a walking one.

19. Headed to the mall? Stroll the length of it once before you start buying—and scout the sales while you’re at it.

20. Set the alarm on your computer to go off every hour or two, then take a quick tour around the floor (or even just a trip up and down the hall) when it does.

21. Next time you have to run a couple of errands, park midway between your destinations and walk to them both. In between, pause to leave the dry cleaning in the car before strolling over to pick up your best friend’s birthday gift.

22. Leave the stilettos in the closet and charm your hubby (or boyfriend) into taking a moonlit walk after dinner at your favorite restaurant.

23. Tell yourself that you’re allergic to escalators and act accordingly.

24. Instead of getting together with the girls for a stay-put meal, plan an evening of window-shopping or an afternoon of new-neighborhood scouting.

25. Whenever possible (and safe), take the scenic route!



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How Yoga Can Relieve Back Pain


locust-yoga-poseMany people start practicing yoga to help alleviate back pain. As a yoga teacher, the most common question I’m asked is, “What can I do to stretch out my back?” While your back may feel like it needs to be stretched out, more than anything it needs to be strengthened. Our backs already have a decent amount of flexibility from day-to-day activity. But in our day-to-day activities—sitting at our desks, in our cars, and on our couches—the muscles that should be holding us up have just atrophied. If you take some time to build up the muscles along your spine, I guarantee you’ll no longer have that feeling of needing a good stretch. Locust Pose is a great place to start.

Begin by lying on your belly with your feet hip’s width apart. Press the tops of your feet down and into the floor. Press hard enough that your thighs firm and your kneecaps actually lift up off the floor. Lift your belly into your spine and press your tailbone down toward the floor. This will stabilize your lower back so that your upper back does most of the work in this pose. Interlace the fingers behind you and squeeze your arms as straight as possible. If this isnt possible, hold onto a towel or strap behind you. Lengthen your arms back and then begin to lift your head, chest, and shoulders up off the floor. You will notice that your arms slide back.
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Try to pick your hands up off of your body so they are in line with the shoulders, if possible. Dont jam your chin up—this can hurt the back of your neck and doesnt help strengthen the back at all. Hold for 5–15 breaths. Release and repeat 3–5 times. Afterward, take Child’s Pose to give your spine some relief. Please make sure to do all of these moves slowly and gently.



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7 Surprising Facts About Running



 

It’s no secret that we’re big fans of running here at Health. Running burns calories, builds muscle, busts stress, and boosts your heart health. Plus, it’s super convenient—just grab a pair of sneakers and go!

In honor of National Running Day, here are some interesting tidbits about running and racing.

Runners are getting adventurous…and dirty
Last year, more people completed obstacle races and mud runs than marathons and half-marathons. These non-traditional races had an estimated 4 million finishers in 2013. (But the 5K is still the most popular race distance, with more than 6.2 million finishers in 2012, says Running USA.)

Your boobs move way more than you think
Researchers from the University of Portsmouth in England have found that breasts don’t just bounce up and down during running; they also move side to side and in and out, creating a complicated figure-8 pattern. This so-called breast displacement could permanently damage the Coopers ligaments and lead to premature sagging. That’s why it’s super important to have supportive sports bras that minimize bouncing as much as possible, but are comfortable enough that you don’t hate to wear them.

You’re fastest in your 20s
Over the marathon distance, at least. Spanish researchers looked at the ages and finishing times of runners in the 2010 and 2011 New York City Marathon and found that men run their fastest marathon at age 27; women at 29. Times were 4% slower for every year younger than these ages, and 2% slower for each year thereafter. Meaning an 18-year-old marathoner runs about as fast as a 60-year-old finisher.

…but people run long distances well into their 90s
The oldest person to run a marathon is Fauja Singh, who at 101 completed the 2012 London Marathon in 7:49:21. The oldest female marathon finisher on record is Gladys Burrill, who at age 92 ran the 2010 Honolulu Marathon in 9:53:16, according to Runner’s World.

Running burns lots of calories
The old saw that running torches about 100 calories per mile is a good benchmark, but calorie burn really depends on weight, and your pace and fitness level also come into play. A good formula is to multiply your weight in pounds by 0.63, then multiply by the number of miles. The number you get is the amount of calories you burned over and above the basal metabolic rate (calories you burn just sitting around). If a 150-pound woman runs 6 miles, she’ll burn about 567 calories. But as you get fitter, running the same number of miles won’t burn as many calories. Then it’s time to go faster—or longer.

Running can be a job requirement
The Army’s Basic Training Physical Fitness Test has three parts: push-ups, sit-ups, and a two mile run. Check out the minimum times to pass the running portion, below. You have to run even faster as a soldier to meet the requirements for the twice-annual Army Fitness Test, or to pass Advanced Infantry Training.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Women rule the roads
Women made up 56% of all 15.5 million race finishers in 2012, according to Running USA. The half-marathon distance has the biggest female presence with a whopping 61/39 gender split. In fact, the marathon is the only event where men have women beat in terms of sign-ups.

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Peloton Launches New Yoga Studio and On-Demand Streaming Platform



If you’re a Peloton fan, you’ll love their latest offering: yoga. That’s right, the brand best known for its high-energy, interactive indoor and streaming cycling classes, and more recently their treadmill classes, is now ready to help you get Zen.

To start, there will be four live yoga classes taught each day by one of three instructors: Aditi Shah, Anna Greenberg, and Kristin McGee. Classes will range from 20 to 45 minutes, and will include a variety of styles, including Vinyasa flow, a vigorous power yoga, a restorative class, a basics class geared towards helping beginners build the foundation of a practice, and even guided meditation. Plus, a bank of yoga content that will be available anywhere, any time.

Studio classes for new members will start at $20, while the yoga programming will be included in current Peloton Bike, Tread, and Digital subscriptions ($39 and $19/month, respectively). And you can count on the signature Peloton teaching style with instructors interacting with both those in class as well as at-home yogis via strategically placed cameras throughout the room as well as a leaderboard. (FYI: Studio classes start today, but live and on-demand streaming won’t begin until December 26.)

“What I am really excited about is bringing the feeling of community into people’s homes, to give them an awesome yoga practice in their home, but with this added element of the boutique fitness experience which is not available to everyone, and I think that is going to be really incredible,” explained Greenberg.

And if the 30-minute flow geared toward prepping folks for Crow Pose (read: tons of hip openers!) I took yesterday with Greenberg, which was the very first classes taught and filmed at the studio, is any indication of Peloton Yoga Studio’s potential, then I’m pretty sure they are going to #namaslay it.

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10 Ways to Live to 100



 

No one really wants to think about aging, but let’s face it: the habits you practice now can play a role in how long you’ll live, and how much life you’ll have in your years.

The world’s oldest man, Polish immigrant Alexander Imich, passed away on Sunday in New York City at the age of 111. That’s way longer than the average American male life expectancy of 76, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.

While Imich told The New York Times that he chalked up his longevity to good genes, there are healthy habits you can pick up to help you live a longer, happier life. Here are some ideas:

Find a hobby
Doing something you find truly fulfilling will give you a sense of accomplishment, and can help reduce stress.

Floss!
Flossing does more than clean your teeth: Getting all that inflammation-causing bacteria off your gums can reduce your risk of heart disease and stroke.

Plan a vacay
Taking a break from work can lower your risk of heart disease and add 1 to 2 years to your life.

Rest up
Your body repairs cells during sleep, so skimping on it doesn’t do your body any favors. Plus, adequate sleep also affects your quality of life. Aim for 7 to 8 hours of shut-eye per night.

Get busy
Having sex releases the feel-good hormone oxytocin, another stress reliever. Plus, a study from the University of Quebec found that women burn 3 calories per minute of sex while men burn 4.

Be social
People with stronger friendships were 50% more likely to live longer than those with weaker connections, a 2010 analysis found. That makes the impact of friendlessness comparable to that of smoking (more on that below).

Eat right
You need to fuel your body with healthy foods to live a long life. Limit your intake of foods high in fat, salt, and added sugar (which can increase your risk of heart disease, obesity, and other chronic diseases) and look for superfoods rich in vitamins, minerals, fiber, and protein.

Hit the gym
Not only is exercise good for the heart, but working out can trigger the release of endorphins, pain-relieving chemicals known to boost your mood. Shoot for at least 150 minutes of moderate exercise a week, per the CDC.

Beat stress
A study published in the Journal of Clinical Endocrinology & Metabolism found that high levels of the stress hormone cortisol are associated with an increased risk of dying from cardiovascular disease. That’s even more reason to take up calming activities, like meditation and yoga.

Stop smoking and limit drinking
Imich, a former smoker, swore off both cigarettes and alcohol and you should follow his lead—at lease when it comes to the cigs. Smoking causes one out of 5 deaths in the U.S. each year, according to the CDC. Moderate alcohol consumption is good for you, but experts recommend that women have no more than one drink per day (or up to 7 per week); for men it’s 1 to 2 drinks per day, or a max of 14 per week.

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Benefits of Gratitude: Improve Your Mood, Sleep and More


There are those moments when sunlight pierces the clouds as if in a painting, your partner unexpectedly cleans the whole house on a whim, or your computer miraculously unfreezes after what you feared was a disastrous death spiral—and a warm feeling of gratitude pours over you. If you didn’t have next-door neighbors, you’d toss open the shutters and start singing like Maria on an Austrian hilltop.

Then there are most days. You know, the ones when you are laser-focused on prepping for your big work meeting or your endless to-do list or an upcoming holiday gathering, and you simply don’t think to pause and appreciate all the wonderful things and people that surround you. You’re in no mood to sing. In fact, you kind of have a headache. Thankfulness has pretty much disappeared from your daily routine, and that’s unfortunate. Because practicing gratitude isn’t just about manners—it’s an important and effective form of self-care.

RELATED: 8 Inspiring Quotes That Will Make You Feel More Grateful

“Gratitude is a powerful way to boost well-being,” says Amie Gordon, PhD, a research scientist at the University of California, San Francisco. A growing body of research links regular doses of gratitude to better sleep, greater happiness, and possibly even lower blood pressure. “And the times when it feels hardest to practice gratitude? That may be when you get the most out of it,” she says.

Robert Emmons, PhD, a leading expert on the science of gratitude, defines it as an awareness and appreciation for the goodness in our lives. It happens when we recognize the source of good as outside ourselves—say, Aunt Jean, who made you the cozy socks, or Mother Nature, who provided the dazzling night sky. Because it is “other-focused,” gratitude can also act as “emotional spackle” in relationships. When you acknowledge your spouse for that emergency dry-cleaning run, your exchange may bring you closer.

We’ll show you how to incorporate this emotion into your everyday life a bit more.

RELATED: 9 Ways Gratitude Can Make You Happier, Fitter, and Richer

How to Overcome Instinct

If your glass often seems half empty (and, er, chipped), cut yourself a break. Some experts say that humans evolved to be on high alert for bad things. Our caveman predecessors who scanned the horizon for the sabertooth instead of stopping to smell the wildflowers had the right idea: They survived to reproduce. Today the threats are different (“Help! Why is the dishwasher making that weird sound?!”), but looking out for potential problems may still be our default, forcing life’s blessings to fade into the background.

Gratitude is also tricky because most of us have a natural tendency to adapt swiftly to changing circumstances. This works to our benefit when terrible things happen. For example, you might think the world has ended when you file for divorce, but a year or two later, most people rate themselves at their pre-split level of happiness. (Scientists call this hedonic adaptation.) Alas, we get used to positive changes quickly, too—and that means we often take them for granted. “When I moved into my new house, I felt so grateful to live there! I thought the hardwood floors were gorgeous and the windows let in so much light,” recalls Gordon. “But within months, I  was complaining the floors squeaked and the windows were cold in the winter.” And our modern world presents plenty of other obstacles. “Gratitude requires pausing and soaking in the things around you in a mindful way,” says Christine Carter, PhD, author of The Sweet Spot: How to Accomplish More by Doing Less. “But constant busyness has become our culture’s default mode. We don’t make time for the stillness gratitude requires.”

RELATED: Christina Applegate’s Grateful, Grounded, Gorgeous Life

But here’s some insight to be thankful for: Understanding these obstacles is the first step to finding workarounds to make a  gratitude practice stick. You don’t need to carve out special time. (Hey, it’s hard enough to get to the gym and take your vitamins.) According to Emmons, the best way to practice gratitude is to integrate it into your everyday. In time, it will become a habit.

“Think of yourself as a curator of your own moments of joy,” says writer A.J. Jacobs, whose book on gratitude, Thanks a Thousand: A Gratitude Journey, is out this month. “Your goal is to collect the good stuff.”

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Appreciate Your Blessings

Ready to feel grateful? Experts share surprisingly simple tactics to get you saying thanks—and meaning it—today.

Acknowledge your “invisible” helpers.

While writing his book, Jacobs traveled the world to thank everyone involved in the creation of his morning cup of coffee—the lid designer, the bean growers. “It can take hundreds of people for one thing to happen in our lives. You totally take them for granted,” he says. Practice a less ambitious version close to home. “If you are picking up your turkey at the farmers’ market, take 10 seconds to look the farmer in the eye and tell her how much you’ve enjoyed her turkeys over the years. It will make her day, and it will make you feel happier. That’s a pretty good deal for your 10 seconds,” says Jacobs.

Try out new words.

Even if you mean it sincerely, saying “Thanks” can come off as nothing more than a reflex, to you and the person you appreciate. Mixing up your phrasing gets you out of “robot mode,” Jacobs found. “To thank my wife one day, I said, ‘I just want you to know I am deeply grateful that you took Lucas to the orthodontist today.’ She was impressed.” His other faves: “I can’t tell you how much it means to me.” “I just want to let you know how much I appreciate…” It can jolt people into feeling the sentiment.

RELATED: How Expressing Gratitude Might Change Your Brain

Make a list.

Intentionally looking for the positive can help you rewrite your brain’s negativity bias. Rachel Fintzy Woods, a psychotherapist in Santa Monica, California, keeps a running tally of 10 things she feels grateful for every day. She puts it in an email draft, but if you are interested in a more structured gratitude practice, try a written journal. It helps to keep things fresh: “Unless you really feel that way each morning, you can’t continue dashing off ‘I am grateful for my morning tea’ and get as much benefit,” says Gordon. To keep the ideas coming, create time for experiences that make you feel awe: a walk in a majestic forest, listening to a new piece of music. Or use preexisting pauses in your schedule to count your blessings. “Make it a practice you automatically associate with a time of day, like when you wait in line at school pickup or in the shower,” suggests Carter.

Use all your senses. 

When you not only look but also touch, smell, listen, or taste, you can’t help but slow down and appreciate your surroundings. Barbara Greenberg, PhD, a clinical psychologist in Fairfield County, Connecticut, intentionally engages multiple senses when she tends to her houseplants. “I have 50 of them, and first thing each morning, I walk around and look at each one. Then I smell them, touch them, maybe take a picture to capture a beautiful moment. I’m so grateful when I get to see one blooming,” she says.

Accept the bad, then move forward.

You don’t have to be blissed-out to feel gratitude, says Carter. Life is complicated: You might be waiting forever. Simply acknowledge that you’re peeved (“Ugh, he left his boxers on the bathroom floor…again.”), and then try to redirect your attention to something you would miss if the person or place that’s bugging you were not in your life. (“No more spooning sessions in the middle of the night? OK, I’ll keep him.”)

Write a gushy email. 

Penning a letter of gratitude to someone who has affected your life in a positive way can boost your happiness, research shows. And it’s a twofer. The recipient of your note feels good as well. So what holds people back? “Senders believe receiving a letter like this might feel uncomfortable or awkward for the person they are writing to. They also underestimate how much it would be appreciated,” says Amit Kumar, PhD, a professor of marketing at the University of Texas at Austin, who examined the question in a 2018 study in the journal Psychological Science. These were just emails (no quill pen and parchment required), but they still had a big impact. So go ahead and write that warm note to the violin teacher who always encouraged you. You’ll both feel happy about it.

Possible Perks

Here’s the science on how gratitude could do us good.

Sleep

Just two weeks of keeping a gratitude diary with three exercises per week led to a boost in sleep quality, per a 2015 study in Journal of Health Psychology. Increased optimism and positivity may have helped people sleep easier.

Self-Control

Make a gratitude list the next time you have to wait. In a study at Northeastern University, subjects asked to recall something they appreciated were better able to delay gratification.

Romantic Harmony

In one study, couples were instructed to express their appreciation for each other in four to six talk sessions. At the end of the study, they rated their relationships as stronger than those who used the time to chat about their day.

Happiness

A study in The Journal of Positive Psychology asked subjects to spend a week recalling and writing about three things that had made them feel grateful or three things that made them feel pride. Afterward, the blessing counters rated themselves as happier than the prideful.

Generosity

Subjects who were primed to feel grateful by having a disguised researcher fix their computer glitch were more likely to help strangers afterward.

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4 Tricks to Make an Easy Switch to Daylight Saving Time



Warmer temperatures, longer days, and the scramble to file your taxes point to one thing: spring is around the corner, and with it, the start of Daylight Saving Time. That means on Sunday, March 13 (at 2 a.m.), it’s time to turn your clocks ahead one hour to “spring forward.”

But it pays to be prepared. “Compared to the fall time change, most people actually have a harder time adjusting when we ‘spring forward,’ because we’re losing an hour of sleep,” explains sleep specialist and clinical psychologist Michael Breus, PhD.

Thankfully, though, there a few easy tweaks you can make to your routine to make the segue to DST smooth and easy.

Step back before you spring forward

More than one third of Americans are chronically sleep deprived, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. “If you’re in this set, it probably won’t be difficult for you to fall asleep at the new time,” Breus says, “but be sure to set your clock ahead before going to sleep on Saturday, March 12.” That way, seeing the lost hour up front will motivate you to go to bed earlier, rather than bumming you out the next morning when you wake up.

If you’re not sleep deprived, you can keep yourself on track by drawing back your bedtime gradually this week. “On the Wednesday before the time change, go to bed 15 minutes earlier,” Breus suggests. “On Thursday, go to bed another 15 minutes earlier, and another 15 the next two nights. That means that by Saturday, you’ll be going to bed an hour early and will have an easier adjustment the next morning.”

Got kids? They need extra help sticking to good sleep habits since they’re less attuned to the hands on the clock and more to their internal timekeepers. “If they get to stay up until 11pm on Friday night, make it 10pm,” says Breus. “Since they’re losing the hour the next day, they need to go to bed earlier so that on Sunday night, they’ll be set up for a good night’s sleep before school on Monday.”

RELATED: The Best and Worst Foods for Sleep

Take stock of sleep habits

This year’s time change coincides with the National Sleep Foundation’s Sleep Awareness Week, so it’s a great occasion to give your sleep habits a quick reboot.

That means turning off electronic devices at least and hour before bedtime (the blue light can interfere with slumber), avoiding eating and drinking (particularly caffeine and alcohol) just before bed, and recommitting to a consistent bedtime ritual (which may include a warm bath, gentle stretching or yoga, or jotting down reminders and worries on a pad of paper so you don’t carry them with you into dreamland).

Refresh your workout schedule

“If exercise relaxes you, the extra hour of evening light we get in March gives you more opportunity to get outside to exercise,” Breus says. “Just remember to keep a three-hour window between your sweat session and bedtime so you have plenty of time to wind down.”  On the other hand, if your workouts jazz you up, “you should keep doing them in the morning, time change or not, because you don’t want that energy boost to lead to insomnia,” Breus says.

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Stay safe on the roads

This is one day out of the year when Breus advises seeking some flexibility on your morning commute, particularly if you drive. “Ask your boss if you can come in to work a little late the Monday after the time change, or ask if you can work from home.” Research has shown the Monday after the spring time change to be particularly dangerous for drivers relative to other Mondays through the year. “It’s not a bad idea to avoid rush hour on Monday morning when roads will be filled with sleep-deprived people running late for work or school,” Breus says.

Just remember: even though it takes a little work up front to get down with Daylight Saving Time, the payoff—longer spring and summer nights—is always worth it.

 



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Gear Guide: A Terrific Pedometer for Kids


My 5-year-old daughter, Zoe, has long been fascinated by my activity monitor. She begs to see the steps I’ve logged, then asks to wear it around the house herself. So imagine her delight when I brought home one just for her. Shaped like a ladybug, it’s part of GeoPalz‘s new line of creatively designed “version 2.0” activity monitors, which measure both how many minutes a child is active and his or her steps. Zoe promptly named her ladybug Madison.

We sat down together to set it up—and were ready to go about two minutes later. Seriously, this gadget takes next to no time to program, and you don’t have to download a thing.

The next morning, Zoe clipped Madison on her waistband and headed off to school. She wore it all day—almost. (“It fell off twice but Miss Jennifer helped me put it back on,” she confided later.) I had visions of her tearing around with her pals at recess, then conquering the super-cool playground at after-school care, racking up loads of steps and gobs of activity minutes. The CDC recommends children get at least 60 minutes a day of moderate to vigorous activity, and I had high hopes—I mean, she’s a fitness editor’s kid, right?

That evening, Zoe and I sat down together and opened Madison’s cover. As expected, she had racked up an impressive number of steps—over 15,000 (it helps that we walk to school). But she had logged just 16 measly activity minutes—meaning those steps didn’t have much heart-healthy pep in them. When asked, she admitted that she preferred hanging out with the teacher to running around on the playground. Sigh.

So we made a deal. Zoe promised to try to increase her daily activity to at least 30 minutes for three days in a row. If she succeeds, she’ll get a prize. (We’re still figuring out what that will be; she’s pushing for an ice-cream cone, but I’m not sure “food as reward” is the message I should be sending.) After that, of course, I’ll raise the target to 40 minutes, then 50, then 60. Moms are like that.

I’d be remiss if I didn’t mention the GeoPalz website. It’s colorful and simple to navigate, and, even better, Zoe scores points toward cool prizes such as balls, Frisbees, and backpacks if she enters her steps each day (or if I enter them for her). The steps also count toward cute award tags you can earn for reaching different step levels. There’s even a place on the site for the rest of the family to corral activity stats from our own monitors (like my Fitbit) so we can compare (and, yes, compete).

After five minutes on the site, a pop-up window suggested that Zoe “run around, grab a jump rope, and come back when you have taken more steps.” She did just that. I think GeoPalz is onto something—and I’m all for it.

If you’re looking for your own activity monitor, check back next week to see my review of four hot new options.

Product: GeoPalz Pedometer (Version 2.0)
Category: Gear
Pros: A fun, creative way to give your child some serious motivation to move more. Plus, the website is kid-friendly and easy to use.
Cons: Nothing major. The display can be a bit hard to read in certain light, and I wonder how long the cover will hold up if Zoe keeps dropping it.
Cost: $25 at GeoPalz.com
Extra tip: Have your child wear it on his or her hip and you can skip the calibration step mentioned in the instructions.



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How to Cope With Holiday Grief



Since childhood, I’d always reveled in my status as a “parent person.” My mom and dad were my best friends, my biggest source of encouragement and guidance, a joy (for the most part) to hang out with, the ones who made special milestones and seasons, well, the most special. I was lucky, and I knew it.

But at just 34 years old, I found myself without them. My mom was killed in a car accident when I was 30, and a few years later, my father suffered a fatal heart attack. Quickly and without warning, I went from being a “parent person” to being a person without living parents. My mother and father would never meet my future husband. I would never place my babies in their arms.

RELATED: 6 Things You Should Never Say to Someone Who Is Grieving

I now have years of experience and expertise in grief—personal, of course, but also professional, as cofounder of the website Modern Loss and coauthor of a book by the same name. I know firsthand that no matter whom you lost, and no matter how many years have passed since it happened, grief never leaves you. I also know that for many of us who have lost loved ones, the holiday season—which comes with its own stressors—can be especially hard to bear. “A lot of things are at play toward the end of the year that can really bring grief roaring back,” says Claire Bidwell Smith, a grief therapist and author of Anxiety: The Missing Stage of Grief. “It’s not just the festive season, with beloved rituals and ongoing celebrations. It’s also a time when the days are shorter and temperatures are dropping throughout much of the country.”

But it’s possible to reclaim this time of year in a significant way, as I’ve slowly learned to do through trial and error. With some effort, creativity, and a heavy dose of self-care, you can reshape beloved rituals and create new ones that are uniquely meaningful to you—just like your loss. Here’s some of the best advice I’ve found:

Pick One Tradition to Carry On

When someone on whom you always relied for holiday rituals is gone (your husband who hung the lights, your mom who made the turkey), it can feel as though the comfort and magic of the season, along with countless practical details, rests entirely on your shoulders. Plus, every sentimental commercial and offhand comment from coworkers (“Oh, I’m going shopping with my mom this weekend”) serves as a reminder of the club you’re no longer in.

RELATED: 6 Ways to Help Someone Who Lost a Loved One to Suicide

Understand that completely replicating past celebrations down to the smallest detail can be very difficult. Instead, consider choosing one treasured ritual, like opening gifts in your sister’s preferred order or watching your husband’s favorite holiday film, and give yourself permission for flexibility on the next holiday if your grief is in a different place then, suggests Alysha Lacey, program director at the Dougy Center for Grieving Children & Families in Portland, Oregon. This kind of selectivity allows you to foster a sense of connection without exhausting yourself physically and mentally, or turning the month into an emotional minefield. For example, since her father died seven years ago, Valentina Vitols Bello, of Seattle, has doled out crisp $1 bills to family members and friends on many New Year’s Eves. “My father would always write the year on them with a Sharpie and gift them as a symbol of prosperity for the year to come,” she says. “I also keep the ones he gave me with my Christmas stuff, so I can get to see them every holiday season.”

Have Some Fun

Bringing a little levity to an emotionally charged period can be surprisingly empowering and help you build a community.  Amanda Johns Perez, of Los Angeles, heads to McDonald’s each December in memory of her dad, whose favorite sandwich was the chain’s signature burger. “Dave Johns Memorial Big Mac Day started as something my immediate family could do, wherever we were,” she says. “But over the years, people who didn’t even know my father have joined in. Each photo I receive of drive-through lines takes a little sting out of the day and makes the start of the season more bearable.”

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I acknowledge my dad in a similar way. When I was a teenager, he embarrassed me annually by displaying a 10-foot-tall menorah (that he built himself!) on our front lawn, complete with holiday lights. Now that he’s gone, I honor that uniquely creative act by inviting friends to the world’s largest menorah lighting, near Central Park. It’s a wonderful way for them to get to know a piece of his personality, and for me to not be alone in my thoughts.

Invite Someone in Need

The loss of a loved one rips a hole in the family fabric, one that can be painfully obvious at the dinner table, when you’re used to seeing that person in their usual place. One woman tells me she fills the void by inviting someone dealing with emptiness in her own life. For the past few years, she has been joined by a family friend who, due to new custody arrangements, can no longer spend Christmas with her own kids. “It’s been so wonderful to include her in our holiday meals instead of staring at an empty seat where my dad used to sit,” she says.

Write to Your Person

Ashley Wyman, of Houston, lost her father to brain cancer three years ago. Every year since, she buys him a holiday card, writes an update on her life inside, and encloses it in a binder. “I keep the cards so that when I’m ready, I can look back at my journey and see how much I have grown since he has passed,” she says. Smith encourages developing an expressive practice like writing or creating art. “Keeping up a connection and even an internal dialogue with our lost loved ones is vital to a healthy grief process,” she says.

Ask for Help

If you’re experiencing recurring thoughts that feel unmanageable—you can’t stop envisioning morbid or illness-related images, you’re becoming paranoid, or you’re considering harming yourself or others—talk to your doctor about getting help. Even if things don’t feel dire, you might find it comforting to speak with a therapist, especially if your friends are focused on merrier matters. (Grief can be awkward to broach with even the closest friends.) There’s also virtual support at your fingertips. Join the Modern Loss closed Facebook group or the Option B Coping with Grief one. The best part of these resources: They’re available 24/7.

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6 Apps That Will Help You Achieve Your New Year’s Resolution



It’s New Year’s resolution time, and you know how it goes: You stock up on new cookbooks, restart that gym membership, buy blackout shades so you can score quality sleep, and take other steps to prep you for making your healthy pledge happen. But before January is over, you drift back to your old ways.

Instead of going down this same path this year, we suggest using your smartphone to help you achieve your goals (hey, you already use it for everything else, right?). Here are five apps to download that can make 2018 the year your resolution sticks.

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If your resolution is to lose weight

App: MyFitnessPal

MyFitnessPal isn’t new, but with a database containing the calorie counts for more than five million foods, it’s an essential tool for anyone hoping to keep track of what they eat. And if your meal is homemade from an online recipe, just paste in the recipe URL and the app will give you the calorie count. Log your eating habits and physical activity (the app has 350 exercises loaded on it) while sharing tips and advice with your friends.

Get: Free, IOS and Android

If you want to be more productive and organized

App: Any.do

The Any.do app is like having personal assistant in your pocket. Keep track of events and tasks with this easy-to-use reminder tool. We love this app because you can share your lists and chat about your to-dos with your family and friends. Another bonus, the Any.Do Assistant uses robot technology to accomplish those mundane and tedious responsibilities you put off for as long as possible, like online shopping and scheduling appointments.

Get: Free, IOS and Android 

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If your goal is to feel calm and centered

App: Pacifica

Manage your stress and anxiety with this free psychologist-designed cognitive behavioral therapy app. Pacifica provides users with relaxation techniques, mood tracking devices, and self-help audio lessons to help you feel less overwhelmed and more relaxed. You also have access to a community of other users dealing with mental and emotional health issues.

Get: Free, IOS and Android 

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If you want better sex

App: IKamasutra/IKamasutra Lite

A healthy sex life means trying new things, and this sexy app has that covered. IKamasutra features more than 100 different sex positions in nine categories, and it’s always suggesting new ones for you. Swipe right ones you like, and the app moves them to a to-do list that includes how-to and descriptions. 

Get: IKamasutra Lite is free; the regular app is $2.99 IOS, Android 

If you hope to run a marathon

App: Couch-to-5K

If making it to the finish line of a 5K is your 2018 goal, this app is the running coach that’ll get you there. This training program is designed to take users from couch potato to in-shape runner in just nine weeks. Select your own trainer, sync it with your music playlists, and track your daily progress . . . and imagine how awesome you’ll feel when you’ve completed those 3.1 miles.

Get: $2.99, IOS and Android 



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Make New Year’s Eve a Night for Self-Care



New Year’s Eve is a time of festive celebration—of dressing up, hitting a dance floor or crowded bar, and counting down to midnight, all to the sounds of music blasting and champagne corks popping. It’s about being with friends and loved ones, and waving good-bye to the old and welcoming in the new.

Well, we’re totally on board with the out with the old, in with the new part. Which is why we’re making the case for skipping the party scene and instead staying in and treating yourself to a night of self-care TLC. Doing these moves can help you breathe a sigh of relief, restore your spirit, and get in the right headspace so you launch your get-healthy resolutions on a strong note.

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If you have big hopes coming up for 2018—such as losing weight, running a half marathon, doing a digital detox, getting more sleep—you’ll stack the cards in your favor if you’re physically and mentally prepared to tackle the challenge. Once you’ve made that mind shift, you can be on your way toward crushing your new year goals. These four self-care ideas for New Year’s Eve will set you up for success.

Plan your first move for January 1

So your plan for 2018 is to build muscle, or learn to cook, or start practicing meditation. Now’s the time, in the quiet of your home, to figure out what your first step will be toward making that goal happen. Don’t aim too high—come up with something realistic that will launch you on your way. In other words, instead of an 8 a.m. run, plan it for a more doable 10 a.m. or 3 p.m. Think of one thing you can do every day that will help you make your resolution a reality. Write it down, and vow to stick to it.

“Figure out what is one minimum change you can make for your well-being,” advises says Stacey Morgenstern, certified health coach and co-founder of Health Coach Institute. Is that eating a nourishing breakfast? Taking a brisk walk with a pal? Stashing your phone away after work so you cut that digital cord? “Drastic changes won’t last, and you’ll set yourself up for self-bullying or failure,” she says. “It’s the mini habits that make a big, positive impact over time.”

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Reach out to your support team

Even if you’re riding solo this December 31, that doesn’t mean you can’t be with loved ones. Reach out—call, text, leave a sweet message on their Instagram. Connecting with the people who know you and support you can give you the feels, but it’ll also clue you into who you want as part of your support team as you tackle your 2018 goals. Tell them what you’re up to, so they can cheer you on as the year moves along.

“Setting a resolution is easy. Keeping it is hard, unless you have the right support and accountability,” says Morgenstern. Who’s going to cheerlead you through the rough days or check in? “That is really what will make this year different,” she adds.

Clear the clutter

We get it, going through your closets and pantry and deciding what to keep and what to junk doesn’t exactly sound like an ideal New Year’s Eve. But hear us out: There’s something very empowering about cutting yourself free from things you don’t use or need. Cleaning up and clearing out helps you feel in control and organized, and when your home is clutter-free, you’ll feel less mentally cluttered as well.

Plus, others might need some of the things you’re tossing more than you do. So look into local charities you can donate clothes, books, and other items. You’ll like the way it feels to start the new year by giving back—stronger and more connected, and that ultimately will help you with your goals.

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Treat yourself to indulgences

Self-care is all about doing what nourishes you. Feel like a glass or two of pinot, or making brownies, or hanging on the sofa doing pretty much nothing? Or maybe hitting the spa for a bunch of treatments or ordering in dinner from a decadent but delicious restaurant? Ignore the judgy voice in your head that’s second-guessing or criticizing what you want and just enjoy yourself.

“Give yourself permission to have it your way and not feel guilty about it,” says Morgenstern. Indulgence doesn’t always mean spending big money or lazing around—even turning in before midnight to score a few hours of extra sleep or popping in a yoga video is a way to treat yourself well and feed your soul. The positivity boost will help you make the changes you’re planning and 2018 a success.



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